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writes:I'll try not to ramble, there's a guy, i've known him for yrs, but not really closely, and we know plenty of mutual people. Recently we started casually talking, 1st time we hung out we where drinking and we hooked up.In previous conversations things may of gotten a little steamy, cause of drinking i don't think we performed our best, it took him a few days after to get back to me, not a week but like 4 days. So i don't know what to read into it, and i don't wanna scare him off by blurting something out.Should I take him getting back to me as a good sign? Honestly, I don't really know what I even want to come of things, and I do know he had mentioned my name to a few of the mutual people before anything happened, but when he asked me had I told a specific person I said, No, I don't know if he coulda read more into it. i need some help on what to say now? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanx, i gave it more time and realized what you said was true, so we've tip toed around the subject and are going to get together again, and i'm also gaining more insight on men, i'm very impatient but instead of giving up or coming off as a stalker with no life, i'm trying so hard to just chill and see what's up, guys don't get less confusing with age.
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reader, niki20 +, writes (23 April 2009):
 well of course getting back to you was a good sign. you said that it was not the best perdormance, maybe he was a little embareased about that. just hang out and talk. there is nothing that i personally think that needs to be said. maybe say that you had a great time. let him think you didnt think it wasnt the best, a guys sexual performance means a lot to them.
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