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female
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30-35,
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writes: How come guys always change when you get too close to them? This guy that I know at school always trys to make me laugh and when I'm sitting with my best friend and he's trying to talk to me he will try to dodge her head to talk to me face to face. Is this because he likes me? He doesn't answer all my texts and I don't expect him to any more. If I ignore texting him for a long period of time then he will text me asking why. I tell him because that's what he does to me. Do you think this person still likes me? How can I break a person out of being selfish and narcisstic?
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reader, crimson_kiss +, writes (22 April 2009):
Yes, he likes you. Sounds like you and he are playing a little game of cat and mouse. Stop the petty stuff and ask him straight out if he likes you and wants to go out with you. Its really that simple. If you like him in return, go for it.
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reader, xnickx +, writes (22 April 2009):
I think he may like you.
Or he would just rather talk to you face to face, at least thats how i prefer to talk to someone.
Some guys are just like that. If you are referring to the texting thing as selfish or narcisstic, i dont necisarrily see that as the case, of course i dont know the whole story.
As for breaking him of it, try to confront him about it if you want to. ask him why he does it, or come up with something creative or something.
But just because you try to change him, he may not. Many guys will not change period.
Hope this was of some help.
xnickx
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