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*kreen23
writes:I've been going out with my girlfriend for the last 6 years. Recently she has been having a tough time with work and family situations (parents on the verge of seperating). She has been acting "off" the last few weeks and when I tried to talk to her about it she'd say "I don't want to talk about it." I wasn't sure if her mood was over external issues or us. Finally last Wednesday I finally got it out of her, she wanted space. I got angry and said the best thing now was us to move back to both our parents places right there and now (this was at 10pm). Next morning I called over a little bit angry and tried to talk to her (not a good idea). We arranged to meet on Saturday to talk and even though I was heartbroken. I made sure to keep things light and said I thought the break was a good idea. She talked about her parents and broke down over that. Recently we bought a second car together so she could learn to drive so I thought it would be best to drop it over on Monday so she could use it and yesterday I collected most of my stuff from our place and left the key there. Things are tough, I love her to bits and miss her loads, but such is life.
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reader, ROBBY33017  +, writes (22 April 2009):
give her space man, If she was the one she will be back.i made the stupid mistake of not respecting my ex when she ask me for space.I started looking for her family and close friends to talk some sense in to her and it backfire on me,she end up telling me she never want to see me again, probably in the future but as friends definetely not in a relationship. my point is that its better to leave it alone and dont hassle her.if she needs u she will come to u.but have some self respect and dont talk to her about love but and be friendly but not her friend.if she wants back tell her u wanna start from scratch and learn from the mistakes u guys made before.good luck.u still have hope.i think i lost mine only time will tell
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