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I'm attracted to fat women

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Question - (22 April 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 2 May 2009)
A female Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Okay I know this might sound a bit weird but I'm a butch lesbian who is attracted to fat women. I've never met another lesbian who has a fetish for this only guys but I'm wondering what I should do about this situation. Is it bad if I get really turned on by -

Girls eating

Seeing their rolls and fat jiggle during sex

Out growing clothes

Them gaining weight a bit (not continuously like just a fat girl gaining a bit not on purpose)

Also I really get turned on when a girl steps on the scale and gets sad because she's gain because to comfort her and tell her she's sexy. I've read other forums on this site from womens perspective and guys. I mean it makes me sooooo horny and mulitple people tell me its bad and good. I don't know what to do. I mean is it bad to put their health at risk for my sexual pleasure? And is it bad to be turned on by glutney and obesity? I also get turned on by women not fitting into chairs or being too big for a ride. I don't know why ever since I was 8 I've had these feelings. Also if anyone knows what percent of the population have this fetish and any theorys of why this is my fetish would be much appiericated.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2009):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thank you and just wondering does anyone know what might have caused this fetish?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2009):

each to his/her own. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. We all like different things. Many people want their woman with some meat on them. In the same way people want thin, short, tall, big chested, flat chested... need i go on. Love i love and there are many women out there who would love someone to put their arms around them and tell them they are loved and beautiful.

You don't need to want them to overeat or feel bad for you to love and support them. Just love them for them. Good luck and happy loving.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2009):

Well that's interesting. I don't think it's the oddest thing I've ever heard though. As to feeling guilty about encouraging gluttony, well there are women out there that would be gluttonous, with or without your input. So you really shouldn't be all that worried about that. I see good news in your preference though, because fat ladies tend to be a little more neglected as far as romantic attention goes. So you shouldn't have too much trouble finding what you want..

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2009):

"Weird" and "bad" is relative to you. A percentage does not exist. There can never be a poll that pulls a percentage of the population. If there is one, it would be lying.

I enjoy Brie, Port and cats having meaningful conversations. Dog creatures may scoff at this. What do you think the percentage is that dogs and cats can get along?

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