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writes:I am recently separated..about 8 months and my boyfriends is divorced. I am 36 and he is 42. I have met his parents, but he has not met my dad. (mom passed away several years ago) I have tried to arrange meeting times, but something always comes up and our plans get cancelled. The thing is, my dad doesn't really know about this man directly, but he does know that I have been seeing someone. My boyfriend thinks that I am keeping him a secret, but honestly, it just doesn't come up in our conversations. (My dad still thinks of me as his baby girl and talk about boyfriends has never come up) What can I do to make this an easy meeting? And how do I introduce them?Crazy over Him
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reader, kellyxxx  +, writes (23 April 2009):
 I'm agreeing with old guy! You are adults but you sound like you are teenagers! You have been through a divorce so how come you are still shy about these things! Go out for a meal! And tell your boyfriend to grow up and be a man!x
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2009): My goodness, you're all adults here, and this sounds like a pretty straightforward thing. Arrange a lunch date with your dad, and bring your guy along. Coordinate the times so that the scheduling works for everyone.
You can only be so much of his baby girl if you've been married and divorced. No doubt your dad wants to meet people who are significant in your life.
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