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writes:Ok this is kind of stupid but I don't know how to handle this one... My 17 year old soon-to-be brother in law has made up a big lie involving me to dump his girlfriend of a year after he has cheated on her numerous times! He used the reason he can't see her anymore saying that I told his parents she is pregnant. Which she is lieing about! And that his parents refuse to let him see her. I didn't even know she was telling everyone this lie of being pregnant until today... Now she is acting 13 about it and he won't come clean and tell her the truth I think I might smack him for using me to lie to her to dump her lol... Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2009): I still think what i said before. It's not right for you to be involved in this, especially when it's hurting you and you don't deserve that. He needs to learn to be a man and take responsibility. I say tell her.
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reader, summerslady21 +, writes (23 April 2009):
summerslady21 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOk well he is still doing this after I told the guy it was not fair to me that he did that! And now he is asking me to take him to see the other girls. I mean out of total honesty I can't stand the one he was originally with age is mouthy but its still not right to lie To her. So now I'm really at a lost because he needs to loose the girl but do it honestly he is not getting that point and I don't know what to do now! Should I tell her what he is doing so she knows it is not me and try to keep it from getting worse or just let it be? She will be at my in laws this weekend and it will be awkward just because I know what he does. What am I to do??
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reader, Dinkie  +, writes (23 April 2009):
it was really unfair of him to lie to her and he should never have used you as an excuse. you should talk to him and let him know your not happy and tell him he has to tell her the truth.otherwise you should find a way of letting her know it was nothing to do with you as this shouldnt be your problem
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2009): Smack away girlfriend.. what i find shocking is that after cheating on her several times, he is still the one doing the dumping. What a rediculous man. And still lyeing.. he can't even take responsibilty for his own feelings and be a man about anything huh..
He does not deserve to have you cover for him. Even if he hadn't used you in this lie, he needed to be smacked a good while back.
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