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female
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30-35,
*onfusedLibby
writes:I have been dating this guy from school but he wanted to keep it secret from everyone because he doesnt like people knowing his business.We've had lots of problems including when he asked my friend out on a date whilst i was supposed to be dating him. She agreed aswell even though she was the one of few people who knew and when she told me and i burst into tears she promised she would never speak to him again but she kept going back and every time i forgave her.Meanwhile I told him i didnt want to speak to him again but he said he couldnt be without me and he would let my friend know(girlA). However he didnt tell her it was because of me and said me and him were just friends. We started dating again and became really close while we were off school and after 4 months we told each other we loved each other. I told a friend who went back and told girlA. girlA then went up to him and told him she knew everything and he was mad at me sayin he couldnt trust me. I had enough and said we should see other people and its going okay but when i see either off them in school it still braks my heart. I would prefer to never see either of them again but thats not an option so what can I do to get over him and stop being mad at her.Please help me. xoxo Reply to this Question
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (22 April 2009):
 You need to dump this boy - he's a player wanna be.
One thing I learned about boys and friends is this, NEVER let a boy come between you and a good friend. If the friend allow that, she just isn't friend material.
Look back and think about this relationship. Think of where you think it went wrong. LEARN from it.
If a guy truly has feeling for you, he will want to tell the world that you are his girl.
If a guy really likes you he will NOT ask other girls out on dates.
If a guy really care about you he will respect you.
Some girls go through life kissing a LOT of frogs before they find "that" guy. Some a few.
Chalk it up to a learning experience and move on.
I would aslo suggest that you go google some books on building self esteem and read them.
It really wasn't you, it was him.
Chin up, honey.
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