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reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2009): Its only sex, if you really loved her you'd respect her decision.
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reader, pure shade 5  +, writes (23 April 2009):
 It is not a good idea to force someone into doing something they don't want to do. Trust me I was in the same boat with one of my ex's. You can't change their mind and if you do love her then you can wait for her to be ready for it. Don't you want it to be great, not like "are we done yet?"
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2009): Let's reverse the question from the perspective of your girlfriend:
"My boyfriend wants to have sex with me and I know he loves me, but I don't want to have sex yet. What should I do and say? He keeps persisting. Is there anything I can do to change his mind?"
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If you can only answer this question with "I don't know" or "You should let him, he loves you" then unfortunately, you have not been able to realize and consider the girl's feelings. Rather than persist and find ways into having sex with her, you 'should' try to work on your relationship with her.
Sex 'should' be a natural phenomena between lovers.
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reader, ArmyMedic  +, writes (22 April 2009):
 If you love her, you will respect her, stop thinking with your Dick! Give her time and when she sees that you aren't just after sex and you actually care about her, you will have a much higher chance of actually having sex with her.
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reader, summer_love5467 +, writes (22 April 2009):
 how long have you been dating?
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reader, kellyxxx +, writes (22 April 2009):
 No you can't make her have sex!
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reader, summer_love5467 +, writes (22 April 2009):
i started out like this with my bf. He stopped pushing me and I eventuall accepted that it could be wonderful with him, something amazing. One da I looked at him and said I want you...and you know what happened from there...lol.But let me point out that it would noot have meant as much to me or him if he had pressured me into. So stop pressuring her and it will make it more specialAlso are you a virgin? is SHE a virgin? HOw long have you been dation?
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (22 April 2009):
 No means no. She'll let you know if she changes her mind.
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