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writes:my boyfriend of a year and ahalf seems to be busy all the time now. he does not want me to sleep over anymore and he does not invite me. he doesnt call me much anymore too. and i always have to ASK him if he could hang out, which he sometimes cancels on the last minute, whether he feels sick, with family, or does not feel like it. and he also doesnt want me as much as i want him. i dont know whats going on. pls help? Reply to this Question
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reader, iloveyou123  +, writes (22 April 2009):
The key is to give him space. Don't call HIM, let him call you. Don't ask him to hang out, let him ask you. Everyone always wants what they can't have. So WHEN he realizes that he could potentially lose you, he'll come crawling back. When he does come back, maintain your own life so that both of you will never get bored. This will work 90% guaranteed.
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reader, fuglyone +, writes (22 April 2009):
 It's as simple as this: Do you like this kind of behavior that he's demonstrating? If so, then continue with everything the way it is and stop asking advice. If you don't like the behavior, then stop seeing him and start looking in different places for friendship and romance.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2009): It sounds to me like he's not carrying his weight in the relationship. You don't deserve that kind of treatment.
Have an honest, non-accusatory discussion about it with him. If he's unwilling to make it work, you'll have to re-evaluate whether or not you want someone like him in your life
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reader, princenothing +, writes (22 April 2009):
i did that to my ex simply because i got bored. i know sry you dont wanna hear that but that was my experience guys dont naturally at a young age wanna settle down some never do. but i can say i figured out how much i love my ex now but its to late. wish i could tell ya what to do but i hope someone else can just remeber the key in life is not being loved by someone else but loved by yourself
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