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writes:Hi aunts, I really need some advice, I've been going out with a boy for a while and tonight for the first time we discovered a little more about each other and when he pulled down his boxers a horrible smell came, it was so ghastly that I wanted to get out of his car, it's not so much that I want to know why it smells just more what can I say or do... because I definitely cannot face that smell if we are going to be going out.Please give me some advice a.s.a.p Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2009): im sorry but whoever suggested the lotion and bought the wrong type....i dont think i would be legal to sell that scent in a bottle... I kinda spoke to him...but im not sure if he thinks i was being serious, either way it was said and il wait and see what hapens
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2009): Tell him to clean himself or sniff himself first. Seriously! I did this with a guy and it helped. But oh my... that can be a horrific smell!
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reader, andrew loves hali  +, writes (23 April 2009):
 you should tell him about it and if things dont "smell better" then you should prbly dump him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2009): I think I agree with Armymedic! That would turn me off so bad...I don't think I would give it a second chance.
It turns my stomach just thinking about it!
Like they say you never get a second chance to make a first impression...that would be it for me!
But of course...it's not up to me...it's up to you! If you want to have a relationship with him, then you have to tell him! Be gentle...and polite. I know it's an embarrassing subject, the only way to resolve it is to be totally honest!
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reader, vwomen +, writes (23 April 2009):
 I agree with crimson kiss, if you really care about him be honest with him. you don't just break up with some before you know what's happening. he may have come from work or working out, not planning to go that far. so talk to him about it and if it happens again than maybe he has a problem with cleaning his body. Just talk to him!!!!!!!!!!!!! Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2009): I think you should dump him, find a clean guy.
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reader, lexel +, writes (22 April 2009):
Back off a bit, and if he starts to questions why then be upfront about it.
Maybe it was just a bad day? If you like him enough to find out if it was or wasn't then so so be it but really, honesty is the best policy here.
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (22 April 2009):
 I would dump him, and if he asks why tell him straight, you really don't want a guy who can't keep himself clean down there.
Guys always assume that they will "get lucky" so most of us keep ourselves particularly clean when going out on a date, so any guy who doesn't really couldn't careless about the relationship.
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reader, pebble +, writes (22 April 2009):
 Gosh, I feel for you, I really do.
The only thing I could suggest would be steering him towards the shower next time you get a bit intimate. Say it's a fantasy or something. But that might be a bit forward if you haven't been going out long...
I hope the aunts can help a little better here. Good luck!!
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reader, crimson_kiss +, writes (22 April 2009):
 The one and only way to handle this is being straight forward and telling him the truth. Put it bluntly. Hopefully he will make the corrections that need to be made!
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