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I love him so much and he says he loves me and wants to marry me, but he's a cheat. What should I do?

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Question - (22 April 2009) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hey guys i recently found out that my boyfriend cheated on me with his ex girlfriend 2 months into our relationship. i didnt find out for 5 months and then out of the blue his ex girlfriend phoned me after obtaining my number from a mutal friend... the funny thing is they slept together in september yet he carried on seeing her after that though it wasnt nothing physical or sexual... on his defence everytime he did see her i knew about it...

its now been 4 months since i found out and he is still begging me and pleading for my forgiveness... we are kidda together and kinda not just tugging along at the moment trying to work things out...

he stopped talkin to her on my wishes and said that he cares about his ex of 5 years so much but i am his future and thats it... recently his ex phones him out of the blue crying saying that her grandma is in hospital which fine i excepted... then he told me that the other day she rang for a social chat and they had one (tho previously he said to me he had knocked out coz he was tired and somehow he changed his mind n told me the truth stright away)...

in their social chat he mentioned to her that we are not together on the accord that i did say we arent together lots of times... tho we were still doin bf/ gf things at the time...

i dont understand.. is he playing games in giving her the green signal to come bk into his life or is he keeping his option open... if he doesnt have me he'll have her... im sooo confused and just dont know where i stand with him... he doesnt know the answers to any of my questions...

please help i love him so much and he says he loves me and wants to marry me... HELP!!

soooorrry its soo long im just so despret

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