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I'm a social misfit with no friends. What should I do?

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Question - (11 April 2009) 8 Answers - (Newest, 12 April 2009)
A female Ireland age 41-50, anonymous writes:

how do make friends.because i have no friends.people can be snobby to me.i don,t know how to have fun either.i never had a friends in school or collage or at sport.i don,t have great appearance either.

28 years old and i can,t fit in with people i don,t feel at ease with people because i was bulled and attack by people where the house i was living in.

boyfriend is impossible because how i look.

a girl i know her she is her 30s can,t make freinds either younger or older.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2009):

You have to be a friend to have a friend. And sadly, even that sometimes doesn't work. So really your best friend should be yourself. Then when you're out with your best friend (yourself) doing what you like doing, you'll find other people who are more like you!

Be a friend to them and invite them into your circle. It starts with you and will grow to a larger circle over time.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2009):

All you need to do is first and for most believe in yourself,don't ever think you aren't a fine woman or person cos u think u don't have great appearance.Appearance doesn't really matter,all that matters is your person.Try to make friends by hanging out,going to parties,gym or look for friends on the internet.Try to be at ease with yourself and have confidence and believe u can do it! Good luck.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2009):

i need more advice.it not easy at all for me.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2009):

See friendship is all about sharing, common interest,doing favors to people and in turn expecting favors from others.

I think u have to start somewhere start by giving what u have,

people will give what they have.

Don't it sounds simple.

U had the problem i have the solution.We are friends.

LOL.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2009):

thats true the people i try to make friends don,t want to know me.they don,t asked me for mobile number,face book site or bebo.or any thing like .i am just left there.any one i like does n,t like me.i am very much on my own with no friends and no chance of ever meeting a guy i really like.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2009):

Hey There...

I'm sorry to hear that you've had such a hard time of it... To be honest, maybe the problems not with you, but with the people you have attempted to be-friend.

I don't know if you have a sister or brother, but if you do, then why not go out on a night with them and socialise in their circle...You never know who you might meet... I too an from Ireland, and new people are always welcome in the circle!

You're not alone, Don't despair xx (",)

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A male reader, ArmyMedic United Kingdom +, writes (11 April 2009):

ArmyMedic agony auntYou asked this very same question earlier here is my answer:

http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-you-make-friends-when-you-dont.html

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2009):

its hard to say how to make friends. most people just start a conversation n it grows from there. common interests are the best way to meet new people and to make friends. everything starts out small but can be a big friendship in the future.

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