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Do guys behave like this when they want more than friendship or just friendship ?

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Question - (11 April 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 11 April 2009)
A female New Zealand age 30-35, anonymous writes:

a guy flirted with me non verbal... but I did not give in right away. after some days he became my friend. but I would not speak to him. because he too would just look not talk to me.

i then eventually backed off. certain days he would brush against me. look at me when I look at him.he would soon look away... he would glance at me. overtake me. smile sometimes.

this happened last year. this year when I looked at him he smiled and said Hi. the very next day he was in my class wanting to talk to me. BUT i ignored him. i then laughed at him too.

plzzzzz tell me. would a guy do all these things when he wants Just friendship Or more.

now that I am his friend ... he is not showing all his feelings. after all he did I expected him to OPEN UP.

he doesnot call me. he behaves nothing took place between both of us.

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (11 April 2009):

DoubleM agony auntOkay girls. Let's try to settle this with an older man perspective. Most guys are a lot more insecure and shy than you may think. In my youth, when still nice looking (lol), the girls that got me were the ones who took the initiative. They essentially came on to me, because I was still a little quiet and shy back then. Lot's of younger guys still feel a bit awkward, and greatly fear a total put-down. That's the meanest thing a girl can do, which he may always remember.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2009):

well i think ... if the guy is seriously interested he would ask her out.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2009):

Satidesire.... how is it possible for a girl to go and ask direct. will it not be embarissing. after all the guy has done. why then is he not willing to open up. It does sound he is interested in her.

what is hindering him ??

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (11 April 2009):

DoubleM agony auntSure he's interested. Just go along if you're curious. See where it goes.

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