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I like "M" but I think he likes "J". I feel betrayed. Ask or move on??

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Question - (11 April 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 17 April 2009)
A female France age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hello Everybody,

First of all thank you for your consideration and for the time you'll spend reading and answering my questions.

I like a classmate, well it's more than just liking him ! His name is "M". Last week we spent 2 nights together (Monday n Tuesday), we didn't have sex cauz I told him I wasn't ready yet n it seemed to me like he was Okay with it cauz he didnt complain. Wednesday night, we went partying with some friends. He was too much drunk and started approaching one of our classmates.

Her name is "J" and she's cute (so am I :p) and she's really nice. The problem is that she already has a bf ! but he works in another city. So they started like dancing together and that was Okay with me but then they went like several times to the bathroom !

I was like what's going on .... didn't know how to react so I just pretended I haven't seen them but well it was too much coz they were hugging and touching each others in front of me !

Later on, I decided to leave the party coz I couldn't stand it any more...n then he followed n he insisted to tell me Bye coz I was travelling on Thursday.

Since then am avoiding him... I feel really betrayed don't know how to act. "J" is like always around him. I really started to have some feelings for him and now am really disappointed.

What do you guys think ? why did he have that behaviour on Wednesday party ? should I ask him ? or just try to move on ?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2009):

Hey,

Am the writer of that topic.

I would like to thank you for your reply. Yes, you are right about him. And you know what I decided to move on :)

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A male reader, ArmyMedic United Kingdom +, writes (12 April 2009):

ArmyMedic agony auntHe tried it on with you and got nowhere so now he has moved his attention on to a girl that seems "easier" I wouldn't waste any of your time on this boy as to me it looks like he is only after one thing.

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