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writes:There's been a lot of misunderstanding between me and this guy I like... and I don't know if I should leave things to him now.Around a month ago, we were close and I just seemed to click with him. He flirted, I flirted back blahblah.. it seemed as if everything was going great. I asked him if he wanted to hang out sometime, so we did and it went really well and we had a lot of fun :).But! Since then he seemed to withdraw and drift off a bit and only say the occasional hello. I was kinda annoyed- I thought I had done something wrong, but he explained that he had some family problems and issues with his ex girlfriend. I understood and let him have some space but I still tried to contact him to see how he was etc, but he never seemed to want to talk so after a few attempts, I stopped trying because I felt like I was being too.. needy and desperate.Theeen, a few days ago, he contacts me asking why I've not been talking to him. Apparently he hadn't been getting my messages (stupid technology..) and he thought I was ignoring him and I thought he was ignoring me.So now! We've cleared up all that but things are still a bit awkard. I think everything is okay but we're just still in the friendly zone but he keeps on hinting at things.. for example, he said he wants a girlfriend. (But he didn't really say anything after that).I'm quite an impatient person and I'd rather just tell him I like him to get it out in the open, but I've done all this before and I don't know if I should leave it all up to him.What do you think I should do?Sorry about the length and confusingness xD.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2009): Tell him tell him tell him!!!
Seriously, you should tell him because he probably doesn't know you like him, and you would kick yourself if you found out after that he wanted you too but it was too late. Good luck.
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