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*xInItForLovexx
writes:Im confused.I work at a pretty big supermarket and Ive always stared at someone I work with,problem is shes turning 25 and im not turning 16 till the end of the year.I think there is something there cause she always stares at me and when we talk she goes all nervous,pink and she gets really clumsy which is so cute. I dont see her too often but when I do we kind of just try and get on with our work which doesn't end up happening.She is gorgeous and I cant imagine her liking me all.Ive only even had a couple of gf`s which haved turned around and cheated on me with guys.im wondering if there is something wrong with me.So my question is How do I get her to like me or at least find out if shes interested in me without embarrassing myself.And what happens if she is? Im all confident when talking to friends but when it comes to talking to her I jsut cant get a coherent sentance out of my mouth.Ive just started keeping my mouth closed and smiling and nodding to save embarrasing myself. I am also hoping its not hormones cause Ive liked her for ages now.Help would be really appreciated good and bad but please dont flame me.Lots of Love to everyone out therexxInItForLovexx
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reader, xxInItForLovexx +, writes (13 April 2009):
xxInItForLovexx is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOkay so I snuck into work but she had called in sick which sucks cause I know she isn't sick. my friend came around today and we were all cuddly and shes said she usta think she was bi but she is straight now.but she is all cuddly and everything so Im like waaaaayyy confused.shes coming around tomorrow again and im gonna show her a movie called D.E.B.S cause its really good and im gonna try and get together with her.any ideas or suggestions cause I don't wanna blow our friendship.Thanks,,xxInItForLovexx
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reader, xxInItForLovexx +, writes (12 April 2009):
xxInItForLovexx is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for that.Its hard cause im barely ever on the same shift as her so Ive been taking as much over time as I can,but we dont finish at the same time so I cant get her on her own to ask her to do something.Its Frustrating!!! and confusing and argh. I need some excuse to talk to her without looking like a goofball.any ideas?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2009): Hi Sweetie :)Maybe you could casually suggest some kind of thing you two could do together that isn't too much pressure? If she's not interested, then you can always just be her friend.Unfortunately, with same-sex stuff it gets a little more complicated, because you have to guess whether they like you AND whether they are straight or not. I would play it cool for a while, and work on being her friend. You'll soon get more signals from her if she's really interested, and if not, then you would have saved yourself some awkwardness!Good luck!
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