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*_miss_me_x
writes:I found out 6 months ago that my boyfriend of two years is cheating on me. He denied it all the way but recently admitted it when we were arguing. He later tried to deny it after he realised what he said. I would be able to forgive him if he stopped the texting. He texts her all the time. He has promised me over and over that he will stop but he hasn't. He even sneaked out the the back way to meet her at 2 o clock one Friday morning. i don't no what to do,i love him so much. Can anyone please give me some advice x
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (12 April 2009):
Are you going to dump him then?
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, x_miss_me_x +, writes (12 April 2009):
x_miss_me_x is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni would like to take this opportunity to thank everyone for your advice & for takin the time to read my problem & to answer it. A big special thanks especially to xy, ur advice is superb,you really have helped me with that advice. Thank you so much. Thank you so much everyone
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reader, kaylagal  +, writes (11 April 2009):
 He is still cheating, and will continue to do so. If you're okay with a guy who cheats and has no RESPECT for you then stay with him but if you have any self-respect let him go. You don't deserve to be treated like that. I can understand if he cheated and stopped but he still texts her and sneaks around to see. He's sending his message to you loud and clear.It's now on you. I would move on.
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reader, fantasytoocute +, writes (11 April 2009):
 i know how you feel....i hurts a lot doesn't it..and you been with him for 2 years that's a pretty long time...but like you said he keeps cheating on let go!! you're just wasting you're time with a guy like like dat..and don't take 2 years of waist but of experience...i was in the same situation but my boyfriend was with a girl for 2 years and he never told me i caught him it hurts but you have to do what u have to do a cheater is always a cheater he may change for a while but he always going to go back ...hope everything works for you
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2009): I just dumped my ex for cheating. So as others have said, cheaters do not usually change and continue to have affairs. You love him, but he clearly does not care that much about you. A cheater will never admit to you he did you wrong and its about their self gratification. Your feelings are not considered, and they will be the one trying to blame it on you for cheating. Promises mean nothing especially if the actions don't match. A cheater will continue what he does if you let him. End this relationship, as you deserve better than this. There will be better guys who will treat you right and give you more respect than this guy. It hurts, but you have to move on. It will get better, but more importantly get out of the relationship before you hurt yourself more. You can do this and walk out of this mess. Give him the boot, and don't look back. You deserve better than what he is giving you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2009): Honey you have to leave him. He doesnt respect you enough to even stay faithful to you. And even after you confronted him with it he continued to do it? Take it from me, he will keep doing this to you as long as you let him do it.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (11 April 2009):
Sweetheart if he cared about you or your relationship at all then he would not be doing this.
The fact he even SNEAKED OUT TO SEE HER says to me he doesn't give a crap.
You need to get out of this and get over him.
He's acting like an arse and you need to stand up for yourself and walk away. You deserve better than this.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, SoFrigginConfused +, writes (11 April 2009):
You need to give him the boot sweetie..its gonna hurt and it wont be easy but you need to give yourself the opportunity to find someone better...someone that will treat you right. Once a cheat ALWAYS a cheat. And I know because I was with a man for 4 1/2 years that cheated on me more than once..and I stayed. When I finally left him, the same girl that he denied being with..has his name tatooed on her leg and a son for him!! And if hes still sneaking off to see her that's WRONG and just shows how much you actually mean to him
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reader, SoFrigginConfused +, writes (11 April 2009):
You need to give him the boot sweetie..its gonna hurt and it wont be easy but you need to give yourself the opportuinity to find someone better...someone that will treat tou right. Once a cheat ALWAYS a cheat. And I know because I was with a man for 4 1/2 years that cheated on me more than once..and I stayed. When I finally left him, the same girl that he denied being with..has his name tatooed on her leg and a son for him!!
And if hes still sneaking off to see her thats WRONG and just shows how much you actually mean to him
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