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writes:Well I feel like I can't get someone. People say I'm pretty but I'm not and I know and they know. I don't know what to do because I feel like burying my head. I'm still a virgin at 17 and my ex already lost his. I feel like it's a competition but he's gotten over me soo quickly. I love talking to him but it hurts. I really, really need help, my life's shit and I don't know what to do?
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reader, Hasden  +, writes (12 April 2009):
 Heyy
I also have the similar story.
Well I'm 16 years old virgin and I want to keep it to a girl I really love.
Sex is something I really want but I wish I can wait for the right person. And I'm also trying to get over it too.
Don't give up !!!!
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reader, BethBabes +, writes (11 April 2009):
 your life can't be that bad just cos your a virgin! it should be something to be proud of cos your not a s**** who lost it at 12! what's the rush anyway, what if you lose it and then meet someone and fall in love with him, wouldn't you want your first time to be with someone you are in love with? and if your ex got over you that quickly then he's a bit of a *** and you can find someone better who loves you, you just need to love you for you!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2009): Virginity isn't a curse to be gotten rid of. It's a gift for someone very special. Your first should be something amazing, not some contest. The way you're talking, it's going to be hard for a good guy to respect you and want to share something special with you.
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reader, jay12toes  +, writes (11 April 2009):
 a break up is never easy, it would be best for you to avoid him for a while so that you can let go of these old feelings. first you need time to heal and then move on. just stay positive, theres someone out there for everyone.
also if it makes you feel any better, im a 21 year old virgin. got you beat by like 4 years lol.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2009): i feel the same way as you.
dont worry about trying to loose your v. !
but do start feeling more positive and you will find someone much better :)
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