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writes:me and my boyfriend of 5 months decided to have sex. we were both virgin and i am on the pill so we didn't use a condom. we had a couple problems the first time. first he wasnt getting hard enough, does he have a problem? once he got a bit harder he couldnt get it in me. it took us 2 hours to get it in, we thought it was because i was tight but we have done it a couple times now, and it still wont go in. is there something i can do about this? and lastly once he's in he cums in seconds, is there anyway to make him last longer?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2009): my bf and i had this same problem, it took him many tries to get in and stay in the first time. After we had sex a few times, however, he was able to get in without a problem. Just make sure you're relaxed. Practice makes perfect lol Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2009): I suggest you to try some lubricant it will make it much easier, And your boyfriend to last longer tell him to maybe think of something else if he feels like hes gonna cum or pull out and wait a minute He will get the hang of it it's always hard in the beginning because it's a new thing for you two. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2009): It all sounds like nerves to me. The two of you need to relax. He is overthinking it instead of just going with the flow. Try using a condom anyway, it seems to desensitize things so they can last a little longer. Otherwise he will have to learn to stop the urge to cum. Tell him to think of other things, whatever he has to do to stop until he can get more control.
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reader, AuntAnya  +, writes (11 April 2009):
Heyy!!
To make him harder and you less tight, you should do a lot of foreplay. If you are both relaxed then it shouldn't be too difficult.
And if the problems persist speak to a local doctor!
AuntAnya xxx
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