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writes: its too long but please please help me out!!ill but soo thankful..!! hey its being too ridiculous for me now-a-days..it goes this way..im 20 yrs n doing my engineering. i have a classmate who never talks with any gal.but since ma 2nd year he started talking to me.we got soo close with each other. actually he had a gal friend n he still loves her soo much.but she is not interested in him.n recently v people went for an industrial tour n we went physical..i.e. kiss n hug. i proposed to him but he said that he is not interested in luv with me but he wants me as a frd forever..i juss cant loose him..i need him too..but i cant be his friend.i luv him soo much..recently i have asked him if u dint have any intentions/feelings on me y did u kiss/hug..n his answer was due to blind affection i have got on u..i juss luv u lyk a frd dats it..!!plz people just help me out of this..!!n i really really luv him loads..!!but at tyms i feel lyk he just flirted wid me..or juss tympass..but at times its lyk he dont..he cares me soo much..v b on phones for long time,text messages till late nights n vr of the same class too..!!almost every1 thanks v r committed bt..he says no..tell me what to do??
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2009): Well this is a tough one because you both want different things. I know it is frustrating to want someone who has drawn a line.He's done a decent thing in telling you he just loves you like a friend. It was not cool for him to use you for kissing and cuddling and then say you're just friends. I think you may feel happier by setting up your own rules with this friend. Try drawing your own line: that you won't flirt back to him, won't kiss, cuddle, or anything suggesting more than buds with him. If he comes after you for it, just return your affections in a professional, brother-sister way, and that way you will have respect for your own emotions. Make rules that take care of your need to be treated with respect and not confusion.Hang in there -
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