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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I don't know what I am doing, there is a guy I work with whom I have been attracted to since I first saw him, we have been flirting for a couple of years (yes years) we finally snogged but I was rubbish I completely froze (my hands were shaking and I didn't really respond),I know he just wants a bit of fun nothing serious obviously I want more but today I just thought if that's all thats on offer then fine but when it came to it I was like a rabbit in headlights, I have never had a boyfriend because I don't think I am good enough and this guy wanted me and I just wish I could have went for it more but I really didn't know what I was doing and it showed, he initially wanted a bit more but he decided just a snog and a feel first but I was rubbish and couldn't stop shaking, I don't know if he noticed my hands shaking, he text me to say we should do it again (I think just at work as he hasn't asked me out) but I am worried I will just be the same, he was quite forward, touching etc. and he is very expeienced when it comes to woman. HELP welcome.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2009): I never had a boyfriend until I was 20 so your time will come. With him, please be careful, as he is experienced and knows what he can say to sway you to his direction. You are good enough, and every guy has different interests so just be confident in yourself. With your virginity, don't lose it to the wrong person because you will regret it after. What I can say is don't fall for the words, because his actions need to match if he truly cares for you or is it in it for sex. Kissing just happens and when you relax you'll learn.
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