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writes:how do make friends.because i have no friends.people can be snobby to me.i don,t know how to have fun either.i never had a friends in school or collage or at sport.i don,t have great appearance either.28 years old and i can,t fit in with people i don,t feel at ease with people because i was bulled and attack by people where the house i was living in.boyfriend is impossible becasuse how i look.a girl i know her she is her 30s can,t make freinds either younger or older. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2009): First off, drop the "I'm so unnatractive" bull. If you truly believe that, due to the mass media shallow values and tripe that is shoveled into us every day by the likes of MTV and Cosmo, then you will repel everyone. Its the energy you emit, just this vibe of unpleasantness. And no one wants to be brought down. Trust me, your attitude is the most unattractive thing about you by far. Secondly, we can all feel alienated at different parts of our life. You mean to tell me you have never had a friend? Ever? I find that hard to believe.You may not classify them as friends in the traditional sense. But if you have had a conversation with someone and they have expressed interest in something you do or say, then thats a potential friend right there. Then, you express interest at what they say. Its really that simple.
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reader, ArmyMedic  +, writes (11 April 2009):
 Are you still living in the town you grew up in? If you are find a job somewhere else, move away and start from scratch.
Go to university join some societies that interest you, you are not the only "social missfit" in the world or even in Ireland! There are lots and lots of people who feel the way you do out there, but by sitting at home saying "I'm ugly and don't fit in" wallowing in self pity is not going to help at all! Get out there, start something new and force yourself to meet people.
Nobody is truly, physically ugly, there is always some one that goes for your type and you can't just go out and have fun, you have to make something fun, if you are negative all the time of course things won't be fun.
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