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writes:My Ex-girlfriend said that I'm not good enough to have new girlfriend and after she started telling me how many guys asking her out after she broke up with me. She said that she can have any boyfriends anytime she wants. Why did she tell me how cool she is ?.... I'm a stupid person sometimes when i envy or when I'm jelous. I think she tried to mess me up because me and her hate eachother after breaking up [It was her fault] I was trying to forget about what she has ever said to me but it's clearly running my mind right now. You all might think I'm stupid but I think the best way to forget what she said is to have sex which means that I will lose my virginity. Well I'm still single I don't want to lose it to one who I don't really love but I feel so hopeless and I don't want to deal with the feeling of being underrestimated virgin. I was pround of being virgin but now it has been changed. She doesn't feel guilty she said that and I just want her to know that what she said is effecting too much more than she expected it would be. I can't believe that I'm like this I don't want to have sex but I feel that I have to, No choices. I'd like to know 1."Is it alright to have sex with one who's your friend ?"2."Is it weird that my type of girl is bruntte even where I has only asian people ?"3."When shuold I lose my virginity if I have choices ?"4."How do I kill my ex-girlfriend legally ?"Thank you all very much
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey it's me
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reader, 00130945  +, writes (12 April 2009):
Your ex sounds like she is just very insecure, and is probably just saying those things to make herself feel better. Honestly she can't think you are all that bad if she was dating you, and if you can't get a new girlfriend then why would she have ever dated you. If you can get her I am positive you will get someone else. I'm sure she can't get any guy she wants, and she is probably just lying to you. Just ignore her and don't let it get to you. That is actually great that you are still a virgin and you should be proud of that. You should save yourself for a girl who you really love. So here more specific answers.
1. NO, don't just have sex with a friend to have sex. Do it with someone you love.
2. You are perfectly normal. Lots of people are attracted to others of a different race.
3. I personally would wait until I was married, but at least wait until it is someone who you are in love with.
4. Haha, well that's impossible so don't even think about it. Just ignore her and move on.
Good luck!
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