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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:My ex boyfriend and I recently got back together officially. We broke up 5 months ago, and then started dating again 2 months after it. My problem is that during those two months in which we did not talk to each other, he slept with one of his exes that he had before me, who still loves him and wants him back so badly. They were in a relationship for 3 years but he left her for me. I know that since we were not together at that time that I should not be bothered by this. But I really cannot understand how he could do that. As far as I know, he was so miserable and depressed when we were broken up. He did not eat and sleep well, and when I asked him out to dinner for the first time after our break up, he was so happy and showed that he is still in love with me with all of his actions and words and eyes as if he fell in love all over again. He even asked me out for another date on that day. However, he slept with his ex one more time after this great date we had after breakup. And this really bothers me. How could he do this when he showed that he is miserable without me and he completely is in love with me?! He said that he never called her first, it was always her calling him and trying to win him back. He said that he never planned to go back to her, and stopped sleeping with her completely after we began sleeping together, which I believe. Should I just think of it as his rebound and move on?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2009): i wouldn't trust him if i were you.chances are he's still friends with his ex, and it soundslike he can't decide between the two of you. if he truelyloved you then he shouldn't of dumped you, his loss, you can do better.
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