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writes:Okay so I've been dating my boyfriend for about 2 months and a half. On june I went on a cruise for a week without him. After a few days of me being back home, i was with my boyfriend and he gets a text from some girl that he knows from school. It said "oh thanks for coming for the movie night." My boyfriend says that he hasn't even talked to her in awhile and doesn't know what she's talking about. When i start texting her to tell her to stop she starts saying on how my boyfriend likes her and to ask him what they did while I was on my cruise. It was kind of weird that she knew i was on a cruise because I don't know her but she could of seen that on my myspace it said that i was on a cruise. and then she says oh and isn't he wearing a gray shirt? and he was wearing a gray shirt which was VERY freaky. but he says that he drives with his windows down and that she could've seen her. I think thats too much of a coincidence. and well now i've had two dreams of him leaving me for another girl. I really am confused on what to do because he's a great,sweet guy and he's not the cheater type. Any advice?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2008): I think the gray shirt rather gives the game away. I'd also guess she's the one telling the truth.
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reader, TheVirg +, writes (21 July 2008):
You really don't have enough evidence to prove he is a cheater. From what I have seen with women (which include my mom, my girlfriend, and my best friend's girlfriend) they tend to have quite a few fears of boyfriends or husbands cheating on them and can often drive themselves close to crazy overnight (Made my parents divorce and both mine and my friends girlfriend break up without there being any cheating). Cheating on people is rarer than what most people think, but because it is so feared and despised it is easily overexaggerated. Men are not tottaly innocent but I think you should give him the benifit of the doubt. don't rush to conclusions and make decisions based on what you think is clear-cut proof of cheating. I think you should wait it out and to worry as little as possible during that time. If he is no longer interested in you or loves another woman, he will let you know through his actions towards you.
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