A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hello ok sorry for the lenght but here goes...Im torn between 2 boys. The first one (A) i have liked for almost a year but im really confused as he is one year older than me, quite flirty around most people and obviosly to me aswell.....The secong guy (R) is my longest known friends ex boyfriend ( a bit confusing i know) they broke up over 2 months ago. Since then i have found him flirting with me non stop and myself only just resisting the urge to flirt back as i have developed strong feelings towards him aswell as A. Is it wrong to like my friends ex boyfriend? Iv asked a few people this and they have said yes, it is wrong but others have said that i should think about myself for once and go for it. Who do i go for?? A or R????Willt his ruin me and my friends relationship? Is it wrong to like 2 guys at once?....will A get jelouse of R?? What do i do!?!? please help me im so confused!!thankyou any reply is really really! appreciated!
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reader, Welcum 2 my 2 Cents  +, writes (22 July 2008):
girl you don't even need to be worry bout choosing, it ain't gonna matter in the end any how. u 2 young 2 b trying to start a long term relationship ur jus wastin ur time.
I say you should live it up foreget ur bf if she's tru she'll be concerned with your hapiness rather than her own ne ways and realize jus cuz it didn't work btw her and ur man that you shouldn't b with em.
have fun with it you got all the time in the world to be decisive, and millions of men to come. haha
keep it real girl!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2008): girl you need not get so caught up in either of them. They neither one gonna matter in the long run ne ways.
I say keep it real flirt with both of them, go on dates, and don't even be tryin to tye your self down ur way to young for that.
And as far as your bf ex. She'll get over it. they ain't together and another thing if she's a real friend she'll be lookin out for your hapiness too who ever it be with.
`Welcome to my two sense.~
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reader, VMLBabyDoll  +, writes (22 July 2008):
These kinds of situations are complicated. Atleast one isnt already your BF and the other is your BFF. i know how you feel i've got a boyfriend that i love dearly but i also love my best friend. Its tough, i know.-Wow you friends ex BF is flirting with you? How would she feel if you went with 'R' or if she knew about this? im not here to lecture you, i will try my best to help.
-BabyDoll
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