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writes:If I want to kiss my girlfriend for the first time do I ask her if its okay or do I just go for it?(Mod Note: Age shown may be wrong) Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2008): Me, personally, I hate it when guys ask if they can kiss you. Yes, it shows consideration but I always feel a little awkward after that, like "okay...I guess we are going to kiss now. Here is comes..." I think the best rule is to follow your instincts.
Wait until you have a tender moment when you are both smiling or looking into each other's eyes. Look into her eyes and either pull her in from the waist a little or lightly put your hand on her cheek. This will give her the signal that you want to kiss her. Then slowly lean in and go 90 percent of the distance. Let her go the other 10.
I think that makes for the best kiss, for you give her the signals that you are going in for a kiss although not disrupting the moment by asking for permission . AND, by her having to go at least 10 percent into the kiss, she is making the decision also to kiss you (not being forced to endure it).
Best of luck.
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reader, 13AF +, writes (21 July 2008):
It kind of depends on the type of girl. Some love the spontenaity of just kissing her while others like the classic and gentlemanly sense of being asked. Some want both (like me...I dream of being asked if my boyfriend can kiss me but I love when he just steps up and does it). Here's one thought. If she asked you out, go straight out and kiss her...she's untraditional and not old-fashioned and probably doesn't have that idyllic romance in mind and should like it if you just kiss her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2008): just go for it,
girls usually think the guy would mkae the 'first move'
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionya i must have put up the wrong age
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (21 July 2008):
 your (im assuming) over 40 and your asking us if you need to ask your girlfriend for permission to kiss her? she is your girlfriend...that would make me think that yes it is ok to kiss your girlfriend - its kind of wat you do in relationships? and no you dont have to ask her.
did you put in the wrong age?
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