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anonymous
writes:HelloMy ex ended our relationship 4 months ago and we kept in contact via phone and email. I asked for reconciliation a few weeks later but she said no! Then she met a new guy and the contact dwindled. To be honest the contact only hurts me. The other day she emailed for the first time in 6 weeks just to say Hi, how are you? work ok? etc.Shall I tell her not to contact me or just ignore herand let her work it out herself. Do I owe her an explanation for not replying? Should I reply and be polite? Do I owe her anything? Is it rude to now ignore her?many thanks for advice
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2008): Do what you feel is right in your heart. You don't owe your ex anything. Will it cause more hard feelings if you don't reply? If it will, then just send her a platonic (IE Generic) friendly reply. I hope that you are happy, and have moved on yourself. Best of Luck Sweet Pea
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (21 July 2008):
 Its not rude if you are happier with no contact. At the end of the day we all do what we have to, to move on. If you dont want to trigger off contact again (which i gather you dont) its prob best to not reply. Everyone moves on at some point after a relationship ends dont they, its not usually ideal to keep exes as friends as it causes upset when we meet someone new. She will soon cotton on that you have moved on.
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