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writes:ok im 14 and im dating or was dating a 16 yr old girl. we been talking over the internet. when we finally meet i took her to the movies. i like her she like me. we start kissing. it was dark because we where in a theater. she took of her bra and i sarted sucking her tits. i sort of got into it. i unzip my pants, she was pllaying with my dick,like rubbing it. we didnt know much about each other. im asian,she is hispanic and black. she is taller them me by a few inches. i lied that i was 16 to maker her comfortable. we didnt see each other for a few weeks,since the day in the movies.i only saw her once in my life. she gave me her number, what should i say,i mean it has been like a month or more and i really like her. we talk in aim, she reply[NEXT TIME BRING A CONDOM LOL],as in LOL do she wanna have sex with me.i sort of want to. i need some advice what should i say when i call her.
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reader, Bladejunkee +, writes (29 September 2008):
 I personally think about this situation and doubt it, why? Because it's unrealistic to think that she was stroking your dick, 16 0r not, good luck though. if you tell her your real age and she doesn't mind and still wants to have sex, bring condoms but you're still underage.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2008): I'm sixteen and I've dated a fourteen year old until recently...We were together for nearly a year before he broke up with me and we never had sex. I don't regret it because I lcared about him a lot and I didn't want him to lose his virginity to me so young and regret it later on, like so many people do when they have sex at your age. Basically I loved him so much that I was willing to wait and see if we made it to his sixteenth before we went so far.
To be honest I don't think you should see this girl again either, but if you really want to keep seeing her then make sure it's for the right reasons, like you really do think you like or even love her (though she just sounds like a slag to me). Oh, and it might be a good idea to mention your real age at some point.
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reader, Angle79  +, writes (10 August 2008):
 Go back to her and tell her you real age. Never good to lie! It will become a very bad habit and it hurts poeple.
I think you should NOT have sex at this age. Wait for a while, till you are more mature and have better understanding about sex/love.... Stay safe baby.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2008): First of all u shudnt hv lied about your age. if she finds out she may get very hurt or even vex (angry). And b4 u do sleep wif her i suggest u tel her bcuz i wudnt wnt 2 hv slept wif sum1 hu is younger or lied about their age 2 me.
Gd luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2008): just go ahead and sleep with her! i would
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2008): It is not good to have sex in the age of 14. I suggest to not go for sex.
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reader, scrazy  +, writes (21 July 2008):
 First of all, lying about your age? Not cool, not mature and definitely not a smart idea. She is going to find out eventually if you continue to talk and in the long run, it's going to do more damage. So you may as well tell her now before things get any more serious.
Second of all, you are 14! Therefore, she will charged if you two have sex and someone reports it! You are underage! Wait, 2 years losing your virginity when you're legal age is better - no jail time!
As for this girl? I think it would be best if you just left her alone. While I'm sure she's a sweetheart (or you wouldn't like her), she's easy. Meaning she's ready to put out on the first (or second!) date. That isn't the type of girl you want, is it?
Girls like that don't just have sex with one guy; they get around with other guys. She could have an STI for all you know!
Just leave the girl alone; wouldn't you prefer a real girlfriend who didn't want to just fool around whenever you two were together? And was, preferably, your age so you don't have to lie to her?
Take Care
XO
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2008): Lighten up all.He only did what pretty much every 14 year old boy wants to do.Those who say they don't are lying idiots or they don't have emotions or hormones.Still, lying wasn't the way to go. If you really like the girl, you gotta come clean as you're putting her at risk, especially in US law.Flynn 24
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (21 July 2008):
Well first off, lying about your age is NOT GOOD! There are laws of consent and you are underage. Do you really think she would be happy playing around with you if she knew she was breaking the law? Tell her your real age.
I also think that if she has met you once and done these things and is now offering you sex, then she has probably done it with a few other guys too. I really think you are too young to handle casual sex. I think she is probably too young and is going to get hurt by it too, but she isn't here so I'm telling you instead.
Don't you want a real girlfriend? Don't you want your first time to be special rather than a cheap fool around in the back of a cinema?
Tell her your age and chill out!
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, TheVirg +, writes (21 July 2008):
I am 16 and personally, I find that my virginity is a trophy I can flaunt over all my other friends who fell to temptation (yea, I know it sounds lame). I think you should not ever date a girl like what you did, sex can be tempting and you feel like you are with the right girl and that you are doing the right thing, but abstinence is the way to go. You dont want to end up with a bad feeling that you chose the things you did because they felt good. My advice for you is to never see that girl again if possible. If you are going to have any relationship, especially at such a young age do it because you really think you love or like the person, and not because you just wanna shove your dick in something because it feels awesome. Use your hand dude.
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