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writes:Ok so I've been datin this guy 4 a few months now..and I really feel that I love him and I have expressed my feelins 2 him and he said 2 me.."don't say it if u don't really mean it" . So that had me thinkin maybe he feel the same way,of course that's not why I told him just so I can hear it back because then it wouldn't be true, so now im having a hard time trying 2 figure out if he really cares about me...he always tellin me about his past and how he's been hurt, one day everyhting seems fine then the next he's accusin me of not really wantin 2 be with him..what should I do?? Reply to this Question
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reader, worriedangel  +, writes (21 July 2008):
 i agree with virg to a degree sometimes actions do say alot more than words, he maybe thinking that its all just words and hes maybe not just feeling the love im sure we have al gone through phases where we love someone but we feel like were at an arms lenght what im saying is do something special for him try and embrace him to let him know he is special to you not by just saying i love you but by doing something that says im thinking of you with love in my heart.. hope that helps xx
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reader, TheVirg +, writes (21 July 2008):
From a guy's point of view, when women express their feelings straight to a guy, it does not seem like they really mean it. Guys tend to take what you say a little bit differently than what you mean it. I can't quite think of an example but it is true. I think the way to show him that you love him is not through your words, but through your actions If you love him, you don't have to proclaim your love to him to let him know that you do, he will know, but if he is the one to take the initiative to do so first, go ahead and feel free to reciprocate.
As for him accusing you of not wanting to be with him, this is not something to immediately try to fix. I think you chould just wait... time will fix his doubts. Treat him to dinner or ask him to come with you, and sooner or later he will reliaze that you really do want to be with him.
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