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I've started thinking about my ex who cheated - but I've never really got over him. I don't know what to do.

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Question - (21 July 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 6 March 2009)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Ok about three years ago my boyfriend of about 3mos cheated on me with a girl who was younger than me (i was in college she was in high school!!! a junior!!)and not to be concieted but she was not pretty and chubby ( now i normally wouldn't call someone chubby but it'd be different if she didn't sleep with my boyfriend at the time)anyway i was heartbroken, he told me he loved me first and blah blah blah ya know how could he do this to me...anyway we broke up obviously and about a week later he called and wanted to "talk" so i stupidly met with him and talked to him and he wanted to get back together, but that never worked out. well, then a couple months later he joined the navy and was still with that girl and they got married. well he started calling me but i was still angry and didn't talk to him and was a total beeyatch to him adn that was the end of it basically. well then i met my boyfriend now and we have been together almost 3 yrs, we have lived together for a year too. well i care about him a lot and i love him alot, but now all the sudden i have started thinking about my ex boyfriend, i don't know whats wrong with me...i mean he cheated on me!!! I dont' know what to do, if i'm just thinking about him because i'm doubting my relationship now or if i never realliy got over him. I don't know what to do!

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A female reader, kellyxxx United Kingdom +, writes (6 March 2009):

kellyxxx agony auntI think there may be problems in your current relationship if you are thinking about your ex, you have to stay away from him! A leopard never changes its spots! X

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