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*onfused1985
writes:Me and my girlfriend were cuddling the other day and I asked jokingly "you don't have any weird sex toys I should know about do you" and she replied "I do have one blue dildo that my ex bought me... maybe you can buy me a better one!" We have only been together a couple of weeks and she is my first propper girlfriend so this is totally new to me, so do I buy her a sex toy (if so WHAT!!!) or do I just pretend that she never said it?I'm a virgin but my girlfriends not.Will it put her off me if I don't know the best way to please her
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reader, Skater_Gurl108  +, writes (25 July 2008):
 WOW! i know i would take that sex toy. and ok your still a virgin so if your nervous it's normal trust me! and just act normal don't freak out if she says yes or no!!!
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reader, Confused1985 +, writes (24 July 2008):
Confused1985 is verified as being by the original poster of the question lol, thank you all very much for your advise.
P.S. yes she knows I'm a virgin.
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reader, Kim Shaddix +, writes (21 July 2008):
 Oh well, I think you should ask her very casually: " did u really meant aboout the sex toy (then laugh a bit), do you want me to buy one 4 u?"
Then you'll know :)
if she says like : "umh yeah"
then you buy one for her
if she's like : "hahaha noo!"
then dont and laugh too, and dont look nervous or anything
does she knows you're a virgin?
xoxo
KiM
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reader, Jix  +, writes (21 July 2008):
 Hi.
As for the sex toy question - I'd buy her one. It would show her that you listen to what she says even if she maybe was just joking. Whats the worst that can happen? As for what kind...I'd suggest getting her a viberator. You can talk to the clerks at the sex shop about what might be most appropriate..
Also, have you discussed your virginity with her? I mean, you might have told her, but have you asked her how she feels about it? Perhaps her last boyfriend wasn't a stud, if he was I'm sure it's no big deal since obviously sex isn't everything. Try not to worry about it too much...Just go with the flow and see what she likes and doesn't like...
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2008): ask her what sort of toys she likes and ask her if she would like to go shopping with you so she can show you what she likes. if you find it a little emarassing to go shopping then try anne summers on the internet. most important make sure you are both comfortable with what you buy - sex should be an enjoyalbe experience not stressfull.............. have fun and good luck!!
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reader, Fiona xxx +, writes (21 July 2008):
 LOL sound like you have a nice and fun relationship together.
I would see how things go together first and get used to being intimate first. Perhaps consider a sex toy as a birthday or christmas present later in the year?
Just please her by being yourself in the bedroom and use your instincts. Good luck, and use a condom. Nobody likes their first time, but be sure you are ready and you will enjoy the subsequent sex.
Fiona.
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