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writes:Ok me and my girlfriend recently had sex.. And she said it really hurt.. How long will it take for her to enjoy sex? Reply to this Question
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reader, daletom  +, writes (31 July 2008):
Anywhere from a few hours to a few months.
A lot of it depends on things you can't control. The things you CAN influence are how relaxed and trusting she is with you, and how much effort you have put into the non-coital lovemaking activities like necking, petting, oral sex, etc.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2008): i lost my virginity to my bf about a month ago. he was very gentle and it still was ridiculously painful. it could take any amount of time for it to stop hurting your girlfriend, at a month i still find it painful at the start. the most important thing is to communicate with her before and during, going slowly and constantly checking if she is okay. even if she doesn't say anything, it's likely it is hurting anyway, and it's up to you to try and be in tune with how she may be feeling. don't stress, it gets better every time
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reader, Jake-o +, writes (21 July 2008):
Jake-o is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks alot for the help.
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reader, gretchen  +, writes (21 July 2008):
 Give her a few days between the next session of intercourse for the torn hymen to heal a bit (it will be irritated and sore for about one to three days) and ALWAYS get her permission before you have sex! Try pleasuring her with oral or fingering before you go full intercourse so that she is aroused enough for it to be less painful. And lube! Lots of lube!
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reader, lostinluv +, writes (21 July 2008):
i suggest that u use lubricant, it can be kinda sticky, but it works! it will make sex more comfortable for her
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reader, TELLULAH  +, writes (21 July 2008):
 Hi,
Maybe a little while, until she learns to relax. Take it very slowly with her, and everything will be fine.
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