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writes:My boyfriend and I had been together for one year and ten months. He's turning seventeen in two weeks and I am twenty. Everything seemed to be going great.....untill the day he broke up with me. The story is......we met in High School through some friends. He was fourteen, I was eighteen. Four months later, we began dating and were inseperable since then! Everybody could really tell that we were made for eachother and he even said so himself a couple hundred times. We clicked like no other and we had such a strong connection that no one could break. We had our moments from time to time where we would argue and everything, but we always made it through and made up with eachother easily! The other day, when we broke up, he told me it was because he no longer felt the same way as he did about me when we were going out. He said he had felt that way for about a month and that whenever he'd try to talk to me, he would find it difficult to find things to say. It's been five days since I last spoke to him and I am so completely lost without him. Before we started going out, we were with other poeople, but we never shared a love like that with anyone else, like the love that he and I used to share together. He kept telling me from time to time waaaay before we broke up that he couldn't imagine being with anyone else and that I was the perfect one for him. That he couldn't be happier with anyone else, but me. And, when we were breaking up, he told me that. He told me that he hadn't felt that way about anyone else before. What does that mean, and why did he say it if he was breaking up with me? I truly believe theres another chance for us sometime in the near future, just like he said. But I need him so much and I dont know what to do with out him! He completed me in so many ways!!!!! Help?Sincerely,depressed and heart broken
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (21 July 2008):
Between 14 and 18 people change. If he feels married to you then it's an awful lot of pressure very young.
Perhaps he just feels too young to be in such a serious relationship ans is jealous of all his guy friends running around having crushes and being kids. He is only a kid at the end of the day.
Talk to him and find out the reason he broke up with you. It could be that he wants to play around and see what it's like being a typical teen before settling down. If you are prepared to let him go off and have that fun then you can take that gamble.
If not then you just have to trust to fate and look for a sign what to do next in life. As you say, if it is meant to be then it will be.
Good Luck!! xx
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