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female
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36-40,
*otinthesane
writes:Hi all! My boyfriend and I have been toogether for the better part of two years. I am a 21 year ols culinary studen and he is a 25 year old probationary fire fighter. We have somewhat of a long distance relationship, but we see eachother most weekends. My question is in reguards to this:Up until a few weeks ago, he couldn't keep his hands off of me. We had a very tight relationship all the way around and sex was great. The thing is that lately, it's as if he doesn't want to be intimate at all. He won't initiate and when I try to, he'll just kiss me and move away. Last night, we started to get intimate and there was some foreplay (about 15 minutes worth), but when it came to sex, he couldn't last (it was no longer than five minutes at the most).He loves the academy so, although I thought that maybe that could be stressing him out, I just can't imagine that being the problem. This has never happened before and I was hoping that someone would be able to help me out here. What's the deal?
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reader, 13AF +, writes (21 July 2008):
Sounds like this was very sudden. It's possible something else could be stressing him out. A sudden occurance judging by the rapid change. Bring it up to him and try to talk it out. Ask him if something's been bothering him and address that you're feeling a tad neglected. If he become defensive, soften up and maybe leave it be for a while. Don't blame or judge. Be supportive and the loving girlfriend you know you are.
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