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writes: my boy friend would rather me give him, massages and happy endings! he works hard at hes job he works for a steel company and loads steel 10 hours a day so i rub him down and that doesnt bother me at all i like doing that for him but he wants a blow job after not always but most of the time,i like giving head but i love sex also he says i like bjs during the week and sex but more sex on the weekends but it seems he would rather just get a blow job all the time we have sex maybe twice a week i give him a blow job 5 times a week how do i get him to have more sex with me ????????
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell i told him i need sex to and its not all about him he said you dont understand how tired i am but we end up having sex and passing out
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reader, PsyCookie +, writes (22 July 2008):
Why don't you try to turn him on more?
When he comes after work, dress really sexy or on something that he would think would be sexy. I assume you have your own way to turn him on, but since you said that he comes tired and you massage him, try to give him an erotic massage. Do other things that you think will turn him on a lot and when you think the time is right, then start going your way to have sex with him.
If he still trying to make you give him a blow job, then try to switch roles and become the dominant one. A lot guys like when a girl takes charge so he might get more turned on. Order him what to do and you manage around. Probably he will not stand it and will want to have sex with you.
Good luck and I hope this helps!
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reader, Dr Vendetta +, writes (22 July 2008):
heres a crazy idea.
Tell him. No blow jobs for you UNTILL the weekend.
are you his girlfriend or his bitch?
Grow a set of balls and tell " Your man" what you want instead of being a good little slave and being done as you're told.
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