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*MLBabyDoll
writes:Hey im 13 and my boyfriend is 14, he says he wants to marry me....a few weeks ago he sent me text 'marry me' i didnt know how to respond i did tell him how i felt thoug. What if asks me and means it so that i can understand if he is being serious, is he rushing or am i? Known me i'd say yes or really bum him out and say lets wait. I love him very much, i have lots of thing going on i dont want to go to fast n have thing between us be messed up. What should i do if this happens?
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reader, VMLBabyDoll +, writes (21 July 2008):
VMLBabyDoll is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWow i guess your right! i do have a lot of time and things to do in life b4 this. I never thought of everything else. even if he was serious i would want to wait, but i still dontknow he has asked twice.... sooo yeah, i know there will be no end the love we have. I will remember your opinons, i appreciate it. Thank you
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2008): im sure you like eachother very much and rite now think you love eachother but the truth is your way too young. wait until you start high school at least because high school changes almost everyones lifestyle and friends and attitude. you mite end up even hating him because you really have no idea how ppl change over highschool. If he asks you tell him you want to wait for a few years
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reader, VMLBabyDoll +, writes (21 July 2008):
VMLBabyDoll is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you, i've been a little confused with him latly. i do love him very much, would love to spend the rest of my life with him but he makes me wonder and the bad kind of wonder like cheeting, i trust him. He is just so sweet, kind and loving i adore him. He tells me he'd love for me to have his lil 1s, makes me smile thinking about him. I was so lost when i got that text i almost cried, well teard but still any1 know what mean? is there others that feel this way too?
Thanx 4 yur help! (-:)3 bunnys are good, i'll of them!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2008): I think he probably meant "I would marry you now if I could", but, you and he both know you can't do that now. He may be a "sweetheart" for a long time, or you may both grow apart. You both have a lot of growing years ahead. Friendships like this are very sweet. You will always remember each other. You may or may not still be close when you are both older, which would be fine if you are. But, think mostly now about school and getting your education. You will be a young lady with a diploma sooner than you think. And then you will have a better idea what you want to do with your life...and so will he. Best wishes, sweetheart. Tom
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (21 July 2008):
 he's 14? honey i dont think he is being 100% serious when he says this - and if he is then i would be a little freaked out! he could have said that meaning that you're the woman he wants to marry in the future...or maybe he wants an understanding.
i wouldnt read too much into this - you guys are so young and dont even know wat you want out of life yet. this kid needs to slow down and live his life in the now! if it happens again..ask him if he is being serious. if he is i would run as fast as you can. or tell him your not ready - up to you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2008): first of all you are very young to even be considering marriage. But when you are older and the right guy wants to marry you he will not ask you in a text message. Sweetheart just enjoy your friends and family right now. you will have plenty of time for dating and love and thinking about marriage and all that stuff when you are older. just explain to him ( if he was actually serious, but hopefully he wasn't) that the two of you will have plenty of time to talk about all that in the years to come if you are still together.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2008): He wants to marry you, he must love you very, very much, but your far to young to make those kind of promises yet. Tell him he's moving too fast and you need to finish school first. If he loves you he can wait untill you reach the legal age. It's impossible to make promises, who knows what will happen in the next 5years. When he says marry me, avoid the question and just text back "I love you very much".... Good luck, take care of you.
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