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writes:There is a girl in my school year lets call her Asher, she doesnt have many friends because of the things she has done in the past, she stole £40 out of my friends pencil case, £40 out of my friends purse while she went to the toilet, £20 out of my friends birthday card, £20 out of my friends pocket while she was trying her new clothes on and another £20 off my friend and her mum. She admited tho stealing the money but said she spent it all on christmas presents for her friends but she get enought money without stealing, she gets £100 off her dad every month and £10 off her mum every weekend. She Lies. she lied to my friend about doing something and said it was me just to get herself out of trouble when we wer best friends, we had a fallout and she said her cousin in affrica died of aids but she hasnt got any family in Affrica, she fell out with another friend of mine and said her grandad just died to make my friend feel sorry for her but in fact he grandad was perfectly fine. She told one of my oldest friends that my mum didnt like her because of the amount of make up she wears but that is a load of rubbish.She Stayed at my friends house just after they made friends and in the middle of the night she got up to use the toilet but she poo'ed all on the seat and left three used period towels in the tub where they keep the hairspray, Somehow every1 has found out about this.Are we bulls for making coments about her, not being her friend and blanking her out ? Thanks (:She
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reader, shandygirl  +, writes (21 July 2008):
 This girl sounds mentally unstable and you should stay away from her. There is NO excuse for stealing, no matter how someone tries to justify it. AND being a compulsive liar is not a good character trait either. Someone who is like that can not be trusted.
I am speaking from experience. My stepdaughter was the same way, and NEVER changed in the 17 years that I was married to her father. She was also a huge trouble maker. It finally got to the point where I forbid her to come to my house.
If I were you, I would speak to her. OR not. But if you do feel like talking to her about it, perhaps explain to her that no one likes being around someone that they can't trust. And, if she wants to have friends, she needs to change her ways.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2008): ok.. i think you should talk to her about it instead of behind her back. tell her that you know she is lying and that friendship is supposed to be built on trust not lies. and then be nice to her she needs a friends right now probabally. maybe she has problems at home like her parents cant be bothered with her and she doesnt noe how to clean up after herself etc... and thinks if she lies about her family dying she will get sympathy and friends.
make friends with her she needs one :)
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