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writes:I think I might be going mad - I think my boyfriend is cheating on me, he went out on Friday night with his best friend which I was fine about but that's not the problem. he told me that he mate had his phone and that's why he never rang me unitl 8.30pm the following night but then he asked me to check a number on his mobile phone and there was a text message from a girl he met on friday night asking to meet one night - i don't know what to do, should i ask him if he was faithful or just ignore it.Everytime he has a lads night out the first thing he says is that nothing happened with any girl and I never even ask him.Should I be worried - please help!!!
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (21 July 2008):
If you want to live on in ignorance and are fine with him cheating as long as you don't find out, then why are you here asking for advice?
Get on with life in a bubble and avoid the issue for as long as you can.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionBut that's thr thing, I've done a lot for him and to find out he cheated on me would be a massive kick in the stomach, the truth is I'm scared of what he might say.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2008): I think you should ask him. A similar thing happened to me with my boyfriend, and I was so suspicious but i kept just acting strange and he noticed it and broke up with me. After a while I found out that he had cheated on me the night when he didnt call me til 5pm the next day. It's best to just ask in the first place. We're back together now, but the thing is, if I had of asked, we probably never would have broken up in the first place.
Go with your instinct.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (21 July 2008):
Well if his mate had his phone then it could be for him.
However, if the first thing he says to you when he gets home is "I didn't cheat." then of course you are going to be paranoid. Why would he tell you that unless you didn't trust him in the first place?
Ask him about it, as these feelings will only get worse if you just sit and think about it all the time.
Good Luck!! xx
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