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*onfused1985
writes:My girlfriend and I have been together about 2 weeks but she seems very horny now and again (she has tried to have text sex with me and has rubbed my penis when we have kissed and said she is wet)I don't want our realationship to be just about sex BUT I do want to make her happy (in and out of the bedroom) so my question is:If she seems horny do I 1. go along with her and see where it goes2. say I'm horny too and that I want her3. tell her to take things more slowly???
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2008): Sorry babes, wrong advice, I now understand your situation better. Your an adult, you got to slow her down. Spend a long time on everything that leads up to sex. Weeks kissing, weeks carressing, months of oral sex. Spend lots of time outside the bedroom taking her places. Kiss her and tell her you think she's great but you don't want to rush and destroy anything. I wish you luck, but keep a condom nearby at all times just in case you can't hold out. LOL... sorry, but things must be very "hard" for you. Take care, you are treating this girl with a lot of respect, I doubt anything you do will be wrong. Take care of you and her and try to be good as long as you can. Blessings.
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reader, Confused1985 +, writes (24 July 2008):
Confused1985 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks for your advise.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2008): I wish all women could read this, then they'd find out that men have feelings too, a lot of women think that all men think about sex with every woman they see.
I like option one, take your time and see where she leads you. You present as aged 22-25 (overage) and currently living in the UK. Your relationship has just started but it seems you've picked a girlfriend who likes sex. Follow her lead, maybe having sex might be just what she needs. You can slow things down after and try to choose activities that keep you far away from the bedroom. You also need to talk to her, tell her she turns you on but you want to slow down because your frightened of ruining things before they even get started. Good luck, take care of you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2008): Ok,ok, so 2 weeks isn't very long,so i can see why your worried about her wanting sex this early.
However,just because she wants sex now,doesn't mean it's all she wants off you.
Tell her how your feeling & if she doesn't understand,then i think you should move on.
xxx
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