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writes: 2 years ago I fell in love with the most amazing girl in the world. She moved to the other side of the country and has much as we wanted it to work, it couldn't. I started dating again but never felt the same way about anyone else. 6 Months ago we started talking again and everything seemed right again. Then about 2 weeks ago she started acting strange and we stopped talking. She moved back to town 2 days ago but she has a bf back in alberta. She admitted that she still loves me and my heart will always belong to her. Should I do everyhting and anything to win her back or should I back of?
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (21 July 2008):
I'd take her out to dinner and tell her you lover and you want her back.
Tell her how much she means to you and all the romantic stuff you can think of. Then tell her that if she wants to be with you then she needs to dump her new guy and get back with you because you can't go on like this in limbo.
Tell her at the end of the night and then after that just say you'll be waiting for her to get in touch if she wants to get back together.
Then cut contact, don't call don't text, don't reply to texts unless she is telling you one way or the other.
Give her a couple of weeks and if she doesn't come back then you have to move on.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, xxkissxx +, writes (21 July 2008):
hey sweetie,
i know this is a tough one,
well if she tells you that she loves you and hasnt asked for you back then all you can do is try and move on is there any point messing up her head but she is also playing with your emotions you should speak to her and see how she feels but if nothing comes of it then you should move on at least you can then turn round and say to yourself i tried
hope this helps x
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reader, sakic +, writes (21 July 2008):
sakic is verified as being by the original poster of the question2 years ago our relationship was great.....and shes only been dating this new guy for a few weeks
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reader, bemused  +, writes (21 July 2008):
 I say...move on it if she says she loves you but exercise caution as well. Caution is never exciting in matters of the heart but it can save you grief.
I guess you know this is not really a sure and steady thing? It has been a rocky situaton but you still sound infatuated. You mention this girl moved away and you still held a candle for this girl. You dated others which sounds good...there was no one who appealed to you?
I am wondering if the basis of the attraction could have been that you wanted what you could not have. Did this girl feel the same about you two years ago. She still moved away, did she not?
Now she is back and claiming she still loves you. What is the status of her relationship back in Alberta. Would she be willing to break it off to be with you...full stop, period. In that you will have your answer as to whether she does love you. If she gives a reason as to why she cannot, you may want to proceed with caution.
Why did she move back? Was it to be closer to you...that sounds good or did she have rift with him and wants the attention.
If I were you I would not jump head over heals on this one...sounds a bit dodgy. Proceed with caution and good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2008): shes obviously confused about who she wants she has a bf but still wants you..i would back off until she's ready to decide who she wants you dont want to be the other man.
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