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writes:Hi can anyone give me any advice or help , my boyf split up with me 2 weeks ago we had been togehter yr and half , he moved in i lent him alot of money.. after 1 moths we started rowing so he left 2 weeks ago. since he has text saying loves me , so i invited him over last wk he stayed over.. 2 days later he text saying bsically had met someone else , then said he hadnt , but does not want me , then he text saying am i ok.. my head is a mess , i also went on his face book site and he had made freinds with his ex it cut like a knive.. i feel awful i cant eat or sleep would love some advice x
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reader, mustangsally +, writes (5 August 2008):
What he' doing is not fair on you at all, and I think the best thing, at least for now, would be to delete or block his number, delete his facebook friendship, and just generally try your best to forget about him. What you've said does not sound like the type of relationship you can end but still have friendship left, I think you need to get out completely before he hurts you even more.
Good luck Honey x
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (21 July 2008):
 Hi
Time is the only thing thats going to help here. That stomach churning knot you have will pass. He is playing mind games with you because he doesn't actually know what he wants by the sounds of it. But its cruel for you.
Might be best to ignore any txt, which will be real hard! But all the time he feels he can pull the strings, he will. If he knows it wont work, you never know, he might well make his mind up which way he is going. You need to know on way or the other for closure.
C xxxx
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