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*ark-charmer.xo
writes:Okay so around march I met these two guys who I both thought were pretty cool. Also these two were pretty good friends. One of them I ended going out with for two or three months and he was my real first relationship. He was my first everything. But then he dumped me telling me he just didn't feel the same way about me anymore. I was heartbroken and I kept trying to get back with him for a few weeks. But then after two months me and the other guy (his good friend) started hanging out and talking alot. One day I was feeling down and he admited to liking me and thought I was beautiful since he first saw me. Althought he had a girlfriend, we ended up making out the next time we saw each other and his girlfriend was out of the picture. Its almost been a month since we have been going out and my ex is saying that he still likes me and he was just scared of a relationship and is jealous of me and his friend. How do I fix this or atleast make it better? I still care about my ex, I always will because he was my first and I will always care about his well being but I like his friend alot more. I want to have them both happy but I don't know how. Please help.
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reader, StudentOfLife +, writes (22 July 2008):
 Guys like what they can't have. He can't have you, he wants you back.
The relationship you're in now seems more stable, your ex will have to accept the fact that he's the one who dumped you. That you moved on and found love again.
It's nice to make other people happy, I'm pretty sure that you're making your boyfriend happy right now.
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