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writes: well im basicly a failure when it comes to relationships. im 15 now, when i was 13 i got my first boyfriend, he treat me like a princess until he decided he wanted sex. when i told him i didnt want sex he forced me into it. and yeh ive been told he raped me which to be honest really upsets me even now. then a bit after that i got a new boyfriend reece who used to take me out all the time and he also wanted sex and nothing else. i gave up on boys and decided i was wayy to young. then 3 months before my 15 i got another boyfriend carl. he was amazin as i thought but we had been together for 4 months and he punched me. gave me a black eye but as ya do, i forgave him and we kissed and made up! we went out for another 5 months and we became sexually active. to be honest id had my virginity took and then the boyfriend after him made me have sex with him soo i had nothing to lose. but i did and i got pregnant! while i was pregnant he hit me and we split up altogether. i had a miscarrage at 3 months and now am about to turn 16 and dont know what to do!! this guy has asked me out this week and i really like him but am afraid that he will turn out like the rest of my boyfriends. should i give this guy a chance or is it worth risking another boy?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2008): You could go out with him - maybe its a risk - but is it one worth taking. Is he a genuine guy? Maybe everything will turn out fine...And even if it doesn't you can split with him.
But if you don't go out you could have the question of whether you missed a really good chance with a great guy who you love. You will wonder if he was different from the rest of them.
Personally - though it could be very hard - I think you should take the risk here. You can ask him to move very slowly if you want and if he's a guy who respects you he will accept that.
In the end though its your choice. Do whatever you think will make you happiest. Good luck x x x
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