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writes:hi im 11 years old i dont drink or drink achohal im a good girll but somhow im pregnant and dont no wat do???p.s my parents do not no Reply to this Question
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reader, gloriawk55 +, writes (13 April 2008):
 Guys, first of all, she's 11, and PETRIFIED!!! For all we know, she might've NOT done it on purpose, the world has bcome horrible. And, she's scared. It's not time to crack down on her, like the other man said, she coul've been drugged. And if she did do it on purpose, well, now she's bneing punished! Luife has its ups and downs! So, I support you, Just tell your parents, and they will probably completely understand if you were drugged, but if you did it on purpose,be very careful, and DON'T beat around the bush. Hopep this helps! *hugs*
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reader, Lil girl lost  +, writes (13 April 2008):
Hey im pregnant aswell im 12 years old it sounds like you got forced without realising do you ever remember waking up with a sore vagina and notice any blood coming from your vagina? Mail back please i want to help xx
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (12 April 2008):
 One thing some Agony Aunts seem to forget is that she might not know she had sex.
She might have been drugged and been abused and gotten pregnant as a result.
Until you know all the horrors that go on in domestic abuse, don't be too quick to judge.
As for the girl, get confirmation from a doctor, there should be ways to see a doctor anonymous if you want to avoid telling your family for now.
Until you get confirmation it could just be panic for nothing.
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reader, daniellexxxx +, writes (12 April 2008):
 OMG your 11 that is appaling sorry but it is. Have you actually had sex or do you just think your pregnant take a test and then tell your parents. It's selfish if you have a bbay at your age as your parents will have to pay and look after your kid selfish.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2008): Tell your parents. PLEASE. RIGHT AWAY. Please realize that you are dealing with something much bigger than anyone being angry at you or the situation with your BF. If you try to hide this for a long time, eventually your parents will be wishing the situation was only as bad as it is right now.
Getting pregnant at 17 is something that might get you thrown out of the house. But getting pregnant at ELEVEN?!? You're still totally a child yourself. You're so young for this, you're not really even old enough to be in the right mental category for your parents to fully get angry at you yet.
It's sort of like the difference between a 17-year-old wrecking their mom's car, versus a 6-year old wrecking the car. Parents are pissed off when their 17yo teenager does it. But if their 6yo child wrecks the car, they're so terrified & shaken up by the whole thing . . . when the smoke clears they're mostly just glad they got it dealt with and nobody got hurt or killed. Of course the parents are still angry at the 6yo, but their anger is a distant second on their list of priorities.
And depending on several factors, a good doctor might decide that you should terminate this pregnancy just for your own safety. Sometimes girls can get pregnant before their bodies are even really ready to handle the stress of the pregnancy & birthing process. You absolutely NEED to see a doctor right away about this pregnancy.
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reader, duskyrowe +, writes (10 April 2008):
 If you had been a good girl then you would not have got yourself up the duff.
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reader, Dr Vendetta +, writes (10 April 2008):
 "Pregnant! I'm only 11 and I'm a good girl really."
Oxymoron.
I wish board could put a vocal enphasis on "Moron"
you knwo. in a couple of weeks your parents are gonna know. you know once that poor bastard starts growing you're gonna be showing and oooh-da-la-la-lee.
Ladies and gentalmen another 2 lives wasted.
If you believ you were Adult enough to have sex at your age. then you're adult enough to tell your parents.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2008): Are you sure you've got your period already? If you havent got your period, then I doubt you're pregnant. Although there is a very slight chance, if it just so happens you're about to have your first period.
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reader, xapathyxrebornx +, writes (10 April 2008):
 Hey are you sure your pregnant? Did you take a test, have you actually had sex...
...or is this a fake question?
reply soon hun and we can give advice we need more info x
but you need to talk to your mum and dad x
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reader, kb123 +, writes (10 April 2008):
hi i can understand where you are comming from its hard to talk to yor parents as some toimes thay can get the hump and be very nasty or be angry and going to the doc you get a little shy dont worry there is no easy way of telling your parents without them getting the hump because relly thay are worryed so you have got to tell them in the end the sooner the better are you going to keep it ??? think very hard if you wanted to get rid take a close made or a parent with you so thay can sopport you, it is very hard to look after a child im 14 and my little cousin is hard work!! if you need any more advice you can email mew let me know how it goes and GOOD LUCK!! XX KB
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2008): How is it that there are two questions from 11 year olds? I thought there was going to be a ceiling on under thirteen sex questions?
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reader, MissKin +, writes (10 April 2008):
 'but somehow you're pregnant'? Um. i'm not sure how this sounds to other people, but this makes it sound like you don't know HOW you ended up pregnant. I'd appreciate it if u clarrified the fact that you had sex. if you didn't have sex and have no idea how you got pregnant. i'm really stumped.
Tell your parents. get advice. think about aborting. adoption. who the father is. telling the father.
Tell your parents. Seriously. They might be mad and angry but - tell your parents. you're 11.
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