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writes:Oh no! What do you guyz think of my behaviour, i know i'm a jerk, damn! I really love my b/f and he keeps on telling me he wants to marry me when he's 28. We've been dating for more than a year now. About 8 months ago i kissed with his cousin at a party at my house, my b/f were also there. I told him about my behaviour that night after a week and i played him, because i was so drunk, obviously was he furious and wanted to break up with me. But I asked for forgiveness and after a day he came back. Well damn! I played my b/f again:( because i was drunk again, and it was with my own cousin (how low can i go), it was my 21st b'day and oh yes my b/f was there. Guyz - why am I like this? I know i can't tell him about it, 'coz he promised me if i do it again he will never forgive me. This only happened 'coz i drank 2 glasses full of vodka without any cool drink with. Help me please i'm scared my b/f will find out about it, and then what must i say?????i hate myself!
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reader, rcn  +, writes (9 April 2008):
 Tell your boyfriend. You did the act, it's not worth it to hide it. Hiding will sometimes create more misery than owning up to the truth. Your boyfriend deserves honesty.
You know what causes this? It's happened twice now. Stay away from parties, and alcohol. If your tolerance for alcohol is low, and being under the influence brings out the little sexual monster in you. Then you have to stay away from the cause. Two glasses is a lot of drink.
Lets say you do get married with this secret. Can you really see beginning a marriage with deceit still present? Sometimes we do end up loosing out with the truth. I'd rather tell the truth and loose, knowing I'm honest, than to have but live a dishonest live.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (9 April 2008):
 You were carried away by the occasion and alcohol.
If he finds out, then send your S.O.S and cry your heart out.
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