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*unshinebabii13
writes:okay i need advice, me and my boyfriend broke up but we were still extremely close and still loved each other, then him and my best friend had sex and I'm no longer friends with her but I'm so confused I love him but I dont know what to do.help please:[
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2008): obviously he didnt love you because if he did he would know better, she wasnt a good friend nor [best] friend because she seriously let you down. just think about the situation and tell yourself how foolish you'd be to take him back. if u kan take HIM back then it would only make sence to take HER back too right? WRONG its hypocritical so leave them both alone
just a reminder, never braG about your boyfriend to ur girlfriends because it only makes them curious to know whats the big deal and to get a first hand perspective on what you have. sounds difficult but it has to be done
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2008): You need to look for a new boyfriend. Women's love from others love.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2008): It is hard but you will get over it. I was with my guy for over 8 years! Just keep yourself busy with work/college/hobbies and you will get thro it.
I found it very hard I'll be honest but I had to make a clean break and move away for a few months and it was the best thing I ever did!
You can talk to me any time if you want in private also :)
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reader, sunshinebabii13 +, writes (10 April 2008):
sunshinebabii13 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOf coarse thier is more, i just tried to make it short and simple. Well i should probley get over it but god it is so hard i want to trust him i want to act like nothing happened but that wont happen. its driving me crazy its all i think about, it hurts so bad. well thank you for the advice i suppose i should just get over it. if i go back to him i would always be questioning him.
thank you and if you have any other advice i would love to hear it
thanky you
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2008): Sweetheart I know exactly how you are feeling. Three years ago I found out my fiance and best friend were having an affair! They were the 2 people I trusted most in the world and I found I couldn't trust either of them again after that. I dunped both of them, as I could never look at them the same way after. Once that trust between best friend/boyf is broken it can never be regained! All you can do is make the decision either to stay with him and wonder will he do it again with some one else and has he done it before? OR move on with your life, make a clean break from him and start afresh... Your young, you have your whole life ahead of you and there's plenty more guys out there who will love, respect and treat you how you should be treated! Good luck with what ever decision you make.
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reader, madflash +, writes (9 April 2008):
 Get over it.
Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2008): You both did break up, your both free to see who you wish. If it is over between you, then you should move on. You didn't state much other then what he did and your reaction. I'm sure there is more to the story then you've provided, right?
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