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36-40,
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writes:Recently I changed my contraception from the pill to the depo injection, I started to get weepy and easily moody in the few weeks that followed my first one last month, at first i thought it was just stress but speaking to my doctor today it seems very likely its a side effect of the depo. In the last few days i have been funny towards my boyfriend as a result of not feeling quite right, after him dissapearing without saying goodnight on im last night I got a bit touchy and rang him, his response was to tell me to f off cos he was in bed, and when i told him i loved him he told me i didnt, my phone went off and after the nastiness he was i didnt bother to put it back on but it seems he had rang me back, and thought id ignored him.I apologised this morning for me being tetchy and explained the depo thing to him, however he didnt seem interested what so ever and pretty much told me i was lying cos I was like this all the time ( i know thats not true) I pointed out I only normally get tetchy when something causes me to (hes been quite hurtfull lately) and that he knew this, and due to the lack of response im guessing he does know this. He still however is refusing to speak to me and im getting annoyed. I have apologised and explained myself, surely that should be enough. It is when he does something wrong to me? I just tend to talk the subject out then forgive it and let it go, I wouldnt ignore him for it.
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reader, MissKin +, writes (9 April 2008):
 if he's ignoring you then there isn't much you can do. How serious are the two of you? how long have you been together? Should you consider this a break up and move on? Is he worth it if he won't allow you to make a mistake?
Just some thoughts for you to think about i guess. If he's being hurtful lately do you still want to be with him?
Are there other things causing problems besides your recent (and understandable) moodiness?
I'm not sure what advice to give you. You can try to get him to talk to you, but think about what you're going to do if he won't? You can't force him to.
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