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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2008): tell her.no, i don't mean "you suck at sucking."i mean, when she gets something right, encourage her and tell her how good it feels. she'll learn what makes u feel good, and she'll work on it.also, if she does something wrong, say "i would love you to do this." demonstrate, so that she knows how to improve. gd luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2008): Haha I love that pun. Sucks at head. Haha :] by the way, good to hear it worked out for you honey.
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reader, alex333 +, writes (9 April 2008):
alex333 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey everyone last night was great. The oral she gave me was better than normal, but it was the best. I think if I keep on telling her what I like it will get better every time. Thanks everyone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2008): Maybe you're rubbish at giving oral - its not all take take take you know.
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reader, madflash +, writes (9 April 2008):
 Try asking her if she can try some different 'tricks' for you, because you two are so good at communicating, she turns you on so much and you feel so close to her that you feel you can actually share your innermost fantasies with her. Tell her you will share those secret desires the next time she 'pleasures you orally', if she is willing to 'rock your world' by being receptive and 'performing everything you ask'.
You can't go wrong with this type of individual flattery of your girlfriend and your relationship as long as once you've got her in that mindset you don't mess up the instructions. Never say, "Not like that", or "Not with teeth", or "You're doing it all wrong". Anything negative will discourage and embarrass her. You have to say things like, "Can you do it with your lips more..." and then moan in ecstasy when she gets it right... POSITIVE inquiries only, rewarded by unreserved praise once she gets it right. Thank you, God, Thank you!'s don't hurt either.
Good luck.
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reader, Stayc63088 +, writes (9 April 2008):
 No problem. Let us know if it worked at all.
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reader, alex333 +, writes (9 April 2008):
alex333 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks everone for the feedback. Its gonna be a fun night.
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reader, Stayc63088 +, writes (9 April 2008):
Watch porn with her. Thats how I learned. Then like mentioned before, let her know when you like what she is doing. If you dont like anything she is doing... haha... then I guess have some fun with it. Ive done food with syrup or whipped cream and things like that. She could get very into it if it is something she enjoys the taste of. Also they have flavored lubricant out there. I personally have never tried it but have heard good things from my female friends (wanting to give a blowjob just so they can taste the stuff). She may also just not like doing it. Some females dont like to give blowjobs. Not much you can do in this situation because if she isnt liking it, she wont get into it or try very hard. So try those suggestions. Hope I helped :)
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (9 April 2008):
 The lack of information and double entendre in your question lead me to suspect that your inquiry is nothing more than a tease, or at the very least an insincere attempt to prompt commentary. The advisors can and will address serious questions about sexual issues when posed properly by addressing a bit more directly any difficulty involved or a need for better understanding.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2008): well, the best way for a girl to be good at giving head is for her to enjoy it. so step 1 : make sure you are clean and fresh before. wash and rinse very well! sometimes the smell/taste is a turn off for girls step 2 : give good directions and complements when she's doing good. tell her specifically what you like and how you like it. if these don't work maybe get two books on how to please your partner. one for her and one for you, show them both to her and say, 'I'd like to explore more things in our sexual relationship... on page 69 (hehe) there's something that looks really fun..." don't have to hint too much, just maybe suggest one technique that you'd like to have done to you by her. then... ask her if there's something she sees that she'd like. who knows, you may suck at oral too ;)
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reader, rucasama  +, writes (9 April 2008):
Don't tell her she's bad at it. Just tell her how you want it, move yourself a little so she knows how to handle it.
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