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writes:I met a really nice man nearly a 8 months ago, i'm 1 month pregnant and in a loving realationship with him. He was my 1st and i want him forever he adores me and asked me to marry him but i lied to him i told him i was 16 but in fact i've only just turned 12. I started developing from the age of 7 so i look a lot older than i am. I need help, i want his child i'm afraid he will leave me if i tell him how old i am. i would just die if i lost him he's my everything what can i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2008): I realize your situation is full of traps and that your BF is going to jail no matter if he knew or not Luckily for you you will not be jailed but will feel even worse now that your HUSBAND is. You have made some mature decisions up to now so continue being a adult about it ,,,,,,Talk to a lawyer of family law...... First Ask any lawyer to direct you to someone who specializes in it. He can keep Mr.babie/dadie out of jail for a year or two.and allow you two time to raise your child while you mature and can raise the child on your own, or with parental help.The next step is to take a wittness with you when you tell your parents include the lawyer in it if you can.Record, Document every thing that you do and record every time date and event you can remember from the past and in the future of this case. Write a book to help others in preteen/teen survive this horrendious experience. Get a paying website to help you pay his legal expencies. Please keep your COOL mature thinking will keep you sane in this insane situation.
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reader, Wisdom  +, writes (11 April 2008):
 How old is this man? Do you realsie by lying to im you may have now made him a criminal? It wont matter in the eyes of the law that you lied he will still go to jail. YOU MUST TELL HIM AND YOUR PARENTS.
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reader, xapathyxrebornx +, writes (10 April 2008):
 first of all he needsto know your pregnant, secondly he needs to knwo your actual age.
Expect him to be annoyed you've lied to him for 8 months. As well as the fact your 12 and he unknowingly commmited statutory rape.
Have you told your parents?
If you have this baby be prepared for the consequences. You will be known as the 12 year old...called a lot of names and after that have a baby to care for who your only 12 years older than!
If you want to keep this baby i cant changed your mind but please think about it x
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reader, Jamer70 +, writes (9 April 2008):
 how old is this guy?
Also you need to tell your parents as they are the best help you can get right now
You also have to tell the guy your pregnant and tell him your real age as its unfair to him
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reader, greenmonkey00  +, writes (9 April 2008):
 Oh lawdy, this is going to open up a whole can of worms. How old is he?
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reader, 1986 +, writes (9 April 2008):
being pregnant at the age of 12 is very young and u have the rest of ur life ahead of u. but it is very important that u tell him ur real age and if he really does love u and wants a future he will stay with you.
best of luck xx
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